where we’ve been…
(there have been inquires into our whereabouts over the last 2 months… i think this might explain it all)
daughter: so it seems you do have lung cancer…
little tobin: humm, i’m ok with that… the dementia shit is what’s going to get me, right?
daughter: most likely…
(that has been 2014 in a nutshell – hoping to find a bit of humor in all this soon)
little tobin & daughter 
You’re a great daughter, Jess. Hang in there. I’m sending you a mental hug. Xo
thanks ky! see you soon.
That’s a shame, Jess. I missed the pieces. But within the sadness I hope you and your mother find more good times and humor. My best to both of you.
thanks so much grier… I will find the humor soon, not giving up hope!